okay...I don't "date" much . In fact they usually turn out to be only one dates because men seem to be such ass hats thinking just because they took you out for dinner your going to have sex with them. When did this become acceptable?? They totally expect it.....and for what?? Because you spent 20 dollars on a meal for me at Boston pizza and you expect I will be falling over panting wanting to bang it out all night....PLUH-EASE!!!! Where do they get this shit? These Men watch way to much fucking porn. If you want a girl that is going to be all porn star then you better get a hooker because no girl is going to put up with this kind of treatment for FREE!
Now to get to the reason I am writing this......
I met a guy a few weeks ago. Went out for supper and a few drinks. Talked a lot which was nice. I was thinking in my mind WOW that went well. After supper, he asked me if i wanted to go to the park for a walk. I was even more surprised about that. Maybe there is one or two romantic men out there. Who doesn't want to go for a walk in the park, holding hands, talking and laughing ....like you always see other "happy" couples doing and wish with all your might that you could have someone decent in your life that you can just relax and be yourself. I think it will be a cold day in hell before that happens for me. Anyways....It was a little bit chilly So I said ..."its getting cold I should get going. I had a really good time." He then offers that we talk in his car for a bit before i leave. I had a feeling this wasn't going to be all innocent like he was trying to act like it was. Sure enough....with in a matter of minutes had his hands all over me, telling me how beautiful I was and he wanted to go some place where we could be alone. He actually suggested a Motel...yuck!! I almost barfed in my mouth. I declined. Number one....I don't have sex on a first day. Like come on. Only hoes do that. I am not 18 anymore. I want more than just a one night stand. He then said "your making things difficult" in my mind "WTF" was ringing loud and clear. I took that moment to get out of the car and say good night.
I got a few text messages throughout the next week. He was all saying how he missed me and couldn't wait to see me again. So on Friday he asked me if we could spend some time together during the day. I told him no because i was working. However we could go out for dinner in the evening. He told me great. What can we do after dinner. I already knew he was hinting at going somewhere to have sex. I pretended I didn't know what he was getting at and suggested a movie or go shopping together. I didn't hear back from him. So after 3 and a half hours I told him that i was assuming that he no longer wanted to see me tonight and have a good night. Asshat got all mad and was throwing a fit like a little baby. 1. because i wasn't going to put out so that was why he didn't respond to me...2. whining and moaning that all he wanted was a girl to like and love him for who he is. HELLO......having sex on a first or second date is NOT love. Its lust, its sex, its just the crazy hornies getting the best of you. I don't know what in the hell he is smoking but I want his supplier so I can be high as hell too. But wait...i have a small child and have to be an adult. Not a raving little 16 year old in a 32 year old body.
After this experience, I am thinking...why the hell bother with the dating scene...its a total waste of time. They all just want to have sex. The worst part about it none of them dick wads wants to wear a condom. Totally disgusting if you ask me.
okay my rant is over. Obviously I don't think ALL men are disgusting asshat pigs but there are so many that are. My question is........when did this become acceptable behavior for men? Why do women put up with it? Or is it because I am a single mom that i am some kind of target for these shady men? All I want is a nice guy. That doesn't make my skin crawl. Is that really too much to ask? It would be really awesome if he had naturally tanned skin ;)
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